Borderline women dating

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The propensity for abusiveness in those with BPD is instigated by the narcissistic injury that is at the heart of the core wound of abandonment Those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) or those with BPD who may not even know they have it, are more likely than the general population to be verbally, emotionally/psychologically, physically abusive.The roots of abuse in BPD, particularly in intimate significant other relationships with Non Borderlines have their genesis in the borderline’s re-living of this deep intra-psychic pain.Pain that is triggered through attempts to be emotionally intimate with someone else.With both, the individual always works hard and feels uncomfortable with vulnerability.These personalities require that a romantic partner serve the interests of the disordered individuals. If you challenge them or try to hold them accountable, they will lash out and punish you.